Maggi finds Happiness…

By now, there is no thought of the birth family, I do my duty and keep in touch… I call home, send cards and little gifts… but I had always done that… I never understood why I did it until recently… But I made sure to stay in contact with the family and the sister that I thought I had a relationship with…

I like my job at USDA and my customers liked me… the supervisor was a real asshole and his loan officers would come for the required 2 years and transfer out as fast as they could… It was humorous… and the women I worked with, well one was a drug addict and the other an alcoholic whose husband decided I needed to be assaulted… I will never understand men and this right they never had…

Well I had been at my job at USDA for a couple of years… got rid of the husband I brought with me and just had some fun… My oldest had started life away from home and the youngest was soon to be of legal age…

So fun I had… It is amazing when you take off the social constraints put on you by other people’s warped ideology…

I had numerous lovers and tried a relationship, which didn’t work and for good reason, he was a con…

So I gave up… and one day, in walked this guy that only stood a couple of inches taller than me… dark wavy hair and attitude of if you don’t like who I am, kiss my ass…

It was love at first sight… a girlfriend said, you don’t want to get involved with him and I asked why and she proceeded to tell me about his mom… I just laughed and said… I don’t plan to marry his mom… I intend to marry him…

In 1994 we married, I gained a beautiful teenage daughter and someone rescue me, cause I had no clue how to handle that…

My oldest showed up in town, my youngest got involved and had a baby on the way and that is how my life became centered around my children, their significant others and lots of grandkids…

There is more to tell about that part of the journey in Okanogan county… the homes we gave up, the financial ruin when those homes were destroyed… but in the end… we did what we could for our kids and grandkids…

Entitled they behaved… financially ruined we were… but I would do it all over again…

I love my children and their children…

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Times Up #MeToo

I Remember….

In loving memory of Dad, Gary & Jan…

Author: Adorable Spite

Domestic violence is an old song, sung thru the ages like a hymn and purported to be the way christians live their lives... full of deceit, hate, bigotry and most of all fear... It is that fear that cost me my virginity, my soul and most of all my humanity... I had to fight to keep the christians hands off my soul, but they stole from my body and so did the U. S. Air Force... Rape and attempted murder... but image was more important... Vance AFB and Webb AFB... #WhyIDidntTell #MeToo TimesUP, Circle of Silence is no more....