When Lies Catch Up With Your Life…

I learned over 30 years ago, not to lie… It is embarrassing, it is degrading and most of all I disappointed myself…. I took that lesson to heart and knew that I could never stay married to anyone that I did not love, totally and completely…. that didn’t happen until #6 came into my world… 

Why did I divorce 5 other men… oh my, some of those stories are so salacious, it would be a sin, to not save them for the book… lets just say… lying to me is the dumbest thing you can do and treating me like a possession instead of an equal will cost anybody that tries it on me… yep, bad ass since I was at least 6 yrs old… that’s the earliest beating my memories have brought forward…

If, as a child I could stand up to 2 abusive adults, a spouse is a cake walk… Now I got to admit, 3 of my divorces didn’t cost me too much…. 1 was to short a marriage to really count and the one that is giving me so much grief after being divorced for at least 27 or more years… well lets just put it this way… I called the dude in 08 an confronted him about using my identity and he made excuses and couldn’t talk at that moment, I requested he call me back so we could resolve the issue… and guess what…. wait for it….

I never heard from him again and he had my phone number…. When you lie, steal and cheat your way through life, it may not catch up to you at the moment you are doing it… but it sure as hell can impact the people you said you loved when you died… as my #4 Ex’s family, is now finding out…

There are many reasons why I am not married to those men and integrity is one of their major flaws and keeping their dick in their pants was the other…

So anyone else out there that I served with in the military wants to pull this kind of crap again on me… you might want to remember, like an elephant, I don’t forget and I remember my time at VANCE AFB … and you never met Margie… she’s the one my whole birth family is terrified of, because she never forgets anything and she remembers lots about Vance…. Leave me alone, you won’t be warned again… instead, you will end up in print… when it’s too late for you to stop me… the book title is already selected….  I am working on the chapter about Vance… want to keep your happy little world you think is real… leave me alone… you won’t like the information #4 told me when your hubby visited in 89….

TimesUp #MeToo

I Remember… Margie…

Author: Adorable Spite

Domestic violence is an old song, sung thru the ages like a hymn and purported to be the way christians live their lives... full of deceit, hate, bigotry and most of all fear... It is that fear that cost me my virginity, my soul and most of all my humanity... I had to fight to keep the christians hands off my soul, but they stole from my body and so did the U. S. Air Force... Rape and attempted murder... but image was more important... Vance AFB and Webb AFB... #WhyIDidntTell #MeToo TimesUP, Circle of Silence is no more....