Victims Chose When To Expose their Rapist…

Victims have every right to choose when to expose their rapist or abusers… The rapist or abuser did not give the victims a choice… they took that right when “NO” was ignored and the rights of the rapist and the beater exceeded the rights of the victim…

I went to my superior in the Air Force and told him about the rape… his comment… “What did I do to invite such behavior”…. I left the room in disgust, knowing that if anything the two lieutenants would get talked too… I never saw the men again…

The rapist that assaulted my child at Vance AFB, did not ask permission… instead he tried to commit suicide and take my kids with him and part of base housing by blowing up the place with natural gas… that was a fun night with the fire department…

The SSgt in the Air Force did not ask that 12 year old before he laid his hands on her… Making that her first rape and no one to turn too… no one to tell until Mike came along…

Victims have every right to hold back and not talk about a violent assault against them… It is not a burden we asked for… It was not a burden we sought… It was a burden put upon us by family members, friends, strangers and the church…..

This burden of guilt that the predators put on the victims is not one I wish on any human, but there are billions of us… why??? Because people refuse to acknowledge they have no right or say or control over another human… 

Just as with religion it is with humans… it is about control… Nothing more, nothing less… If you understand that, then you understand why gods are nothing more than a cover for control over you…

TimesUp #MeToo

I Remember… Margie….