I am a Elder, not your best friend…

Quit treating me like I am your best friend… I am your elder, not your BFF…..

The last few years has taught me, with my sons… they forgot, I was there for them… where were their dads??? I don’t lie to them and I make them own their lives or they can stay out of mine… I am not on this earth as a best friend… I am the person who allowed them to live by giving birth to them… I was there… not the sperm donors!!!

As for the grand kids… a few years ago a beautiful grand-daughter got into modeling… and was using a company that has been around for a long time, under many names and the courts keep closing them down, but back they come to steal from naive kids…

I showed her it was a scam and that the thousands she had given them, just went into the dudes mansion… her mother went off on me, the child was cold and distant…

My ex daughter in law has done more lying than Trump has and that is a fact… because of that, the rift between father and kids is wide… and I have worked to get her to come clean… and trash we have become… just like the house we gave them to live in…

I have done things for my step daughter, but because of her up bringing, she too has disrespected…

I honestly do not get it… even though my parents beat me to death, on more than one occasion and I have multiple TBIs, PTSD and neuropathy…. I never disrespected them… they are still my elders… instead I walked away from that life, because, they didn’t respect me…

The same goes for our kids and grand kids… We are not your age, we have already spent over 6 decades on this earth and I have lived a life rich with experience… it just does not agree with theirs… 

But ya know what, every time they want something…. the phone rings…

What Mike and I have done for our parents, the money we spent to be their and the civility and respect we showed them… We will never get back…

Just ask the kids, they know everything… which is why I stay reasonably silent anymore with any of them… so many have been rude and disrespectful as if they have a right…

You do not… we never did that to them…. and that is a FACT!!!

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I Remember… Margie.. granpa Dave in hospice gave me a dollar at 6 years old, I spent it on him, even though the gift of money was for me… that is how Margie treats others…

Sgt. USAF DAV