Love & Marriage….

25 years working at it… sometimes just cruising along, how ya doing… everything okay…. sometimes lovey dovey… lets get togehter and sometimes…. heated and pissed, because we each have our own demons….

Love & marriage… the concept really is a chore…

If you go back an look at the history of life that is recorded… not the bible either… best piece of fiction out there, but, I am talking real recorded history, that can be proven….

Marriage has been around from the get go or at least some form of it…

Some arranged, to keep kingdoms from killing each other off…. or just so you can get an extra cow or pig…. children married to men and if you look at history, it’s always female “Children”, married off to Men… not much has changed thanks to Trumps base… white mans slavery alive an well… telling me what I can do with MY BODY!!!.

They say about 50 years ago, marriage started evolving into a partnership… I have to agree… after 6 tries at the institution…. it takes a partnership….

Though I love my hubby to pieces… he is not above or below me… he walks beside me… one of the few men I respect on this planet… in fact, thinking about it, he is the only man I know that I respect….. wow, that’s a shocker….

Over time, he got the message I wasn’t property and by our 2nd decade together… I knew he was a keeper… we are equals….

There are days I want to kick his ass, and since he owned his issue… that is less often, still happens, but I annoy him too… just saying…..

For me, our marriage isn’t about the sex, the money or the hard work we both put into it… it’s about respecting each other enough, to never put each other on a pedistal and just own our lives…

It doesn’t get much better than that…..

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Sgt. USAF DAV I Remember… Margie….